Hello mga Kababayan!
Masakit na pagdudahan ang “compatibility” ninyo ng taong mahal mo. Paano ba natin malalaman kung SIYA NA NGA BA?
It really takes time. There is no short cut to figuring out if the person is ‘the one for you.’ Studies have shown that the longer the courtship (panliligaw) the greater the chances for a successful long-term relationship. At kung hindi malinaw sa iyo kung siya na nga ba, it won’t hurt to take time away from each other. Get some space to figure things out before you make a permanent commitment (such as marriage) to this person.
If you have strong feelings for the person that you are dating – it’s a factor to consider but it’s also not the most reliable evidence that he/she is the one. Feelings are fickle (pwedeng paiba-iba). True love needs commitment, having the maturity to decide to still be with someone even if the feelings are not there.
Love is a choice more than a feeling. If you are doubting that he/she is the one, give it time… let the relationship mature and find a stronger foundation through developing your individual lives and not just the life you share as a couple.
Kahit may duda o pag-aalinlangan maaaring siya pa rin… bigyan mo ang sarili ng sapat na panahon na mapatunayan ninyo sa isa’t-isa na: Higit pa sa kilig – kaya ng inyong pag-iibigan na harapin ang anumang pagsubok na darating sa inyong buhay.
The relationship should clearly be making you a better person. If not, hindi siya ang tao para sa iyo.
Paano mo nga ba malalaman kung siya na talaga ang para sa iyo? I-like si Coach Pia Acevedo sa Facebook or @coach_pia on twitter and Instagram at maaari niyo kaming i-message para humingi ng gabay sa pagpapabuti ng buhay.
Si Coach Pia Acevedo ay isang kilalang Performance Management Expert, Life Coach at manunulat ng sikat na librong Born To Be A Hero. Siya rin ay CEO ng The OneCORE- isang organisasyong nakatuon sa pagtulong sa mga tao kung paano gumawa ng mainam na desisyon sa buhay.
Pinoy Ekspert
by Coach Pia
